A Sign of Maturity?

Twice in recent days I have written an email and then deleted it or otherwise reconsidered before sending, figuring that the act of writing my feelings was more important than sending them to the other party.

The only drawback is that I am not addressing the situation at all with the other people (two totally different people/problems), but rather hoping they will go away or I will forget about them.

I don't like to be seen as demanding. And sometimes in the scheme of things something irksome later seems minor, and then you haven't built up the ill-will of having complained about it to someone you're trying to do great things with.

Writing, then deleting: Trend or fluke?